A) For as long as I can remember lol It has been a part of me for years and years, I first played privately with b/fs, then my husband and scene friends then with the onset of the www meeting and playing with others until one person said I should do it for a living as I hated my job at that time. I hummed and aahhed at this as I enjoy it but he made such a valid point that I took the step forward leaving my job to become a professional spanker. I have to tell you, I have never looked back and am eternally grateful to that person for persuading me <grins>
I just adore meeting new scene players (newbies), chatting with them then playing just as much as I love playing with people I have known for years, once we have chatted you get to know them a little or indeed for some alot <ewg>, playing you get to know what they like, how they will react and act thus it makes it fun for both parties. What I can not abide is scene players who say they are experienced, define this;- how many times have they played, how many people have they actually met, chatted too before play commences, how many implements have they used, do they know where implements should be placed upon a bottom, can they line a cane up....all these are questions that you have to think about otherwise you could put yourself in danger and I am a great believer in if you can't take it then don't dish it out simple! Until you know what implements feel like how can you use them responsibly....it's very easy to say "I am experienced" but they are only words and the actual actions mean a lot more than mere words.