Frequently Asked Questions ? (be warned I do go on a bit but some relevant questions asked and hopefully answered, if not then by all means E mail me!) Also some questions may be covered twice this is due to the fact people either don't read or choose to ignore, if you send an E mail asking a question that is answered already on here I will not reply as it is a waste of my time when I put these faqs here for your benefit!

Just a little note for me:-
I have noticed that there are some people who seem to use their own names as their E mail address, please think about this very seriously if you don't want any vanilla people to find you, it is far safer to have a pseudonym set up, once in contact with anyone you can then give them your name when you know it is safe to do so and you trust the person. Remember there are a lot of unscrupulous people out there plus if you are avidly posting on chat sites, forums or even doing reviews on sites people will find your name by just typing it into google. Also when signing into secure sites, members areas, shops etc; always use letters and figures these are harder for hackers to suss out, try not to use your name as passwords or usernames, if you do add figures at the front and back. Do not think that typing your own name backwards thwarts them as this is the first option they will take. Think carefully about it and use something that no-one would associate with you, that way vanilla people will not stumble on you by accident. That's all for my lecture <grins> You can continue to read my F.A.Q s now ! ALSO people using work computers to send me E mails...REMEMBER I reply to that address.

1.  Q) How can I pay for the session?
2.  Q) Why don't you bottom anymore?
3.  Q) I noticed on one of your pages that your pet hate is people not giving their name, do you have any more we should know about lol?
4.  Q) What is the lead time for an appointment?
5.  Q) Is that you in the photos?
6.  Q) I have E mailed and telephoned but get no response?
7.  Q) Why has your site gone to a members area?
8.  Q) Do you offer sexual relief/or relieve myself? (this is not here for the sake of it, IT IS FACT!)
9.  Q) Do you have any implements?
10. Q) Can I visit the ladies shown in your clips/photos?
11. Q) Do you offer double sessions (or Double Topping) with another female Top?
12. Q) I notice it says you don't do nudity but does this mean I leave my pants on?
13. Q) How hard/severe do you give it?
14. Q) I want to be spanked/caned until I cry?
15. Q) I can get to a train/bus station do you offer transport from here?
16. Q) I am new to giving but would like to try; can you give me any advice?
17. Q) Do we have to do role play as I am not a very good actor?
18. Q) I have a role play/scenario that I would like to carry out is this possible?
19. Q) What uniforms/outfits do you own and will wear for our session?
20. Q) How much time do I get? Can I book for 1/2 an hour? I can't afford a full hour?
21. Q) I would like to do a review on your website but need access to the members area to give an objective view?
22. Q) Is your house discreet/safe?
23. Q) I had to cancel due to personal problems; will you allow me to re-book?
24. Q) Can I chat with you on YIM or MSN or any instant messenger service?
25. Q) How long have you been into the scene?
26. Q) I have seen your bottom a few times but what is the tattoo?
27. Q) What are your favourite implements?
28. Q) I sometimes have an accident, is this acceptable?/What happens if I get an erection over your knee?
29. Q) I enjoy food play can I incorporate this into a session?
30. Q) I enjoy Bondage; can I incorporate this into the session?
31. Q) I want to go over your stockinged/pantyhose/tights/bare knee?
32. Q) Do you only see male bottoms/subs?
33. Q) Don't laugh but I am a 60 year old adult schoolboy, do you see people of this age?
34. Q) I am new to this and have no experience can you help?
35. Q) I am new and I don't want marks but want a really hard spanking/caning/tawse?
36. Q) I am new to the scene and would like feature in one of your shoots within a safe environment as a spanking model?
37. Q) I have seen your sample clips of DVD's are these available in your Members Area?
38. Q) Do you have a schoolroom/desk?
39. Q) Will I have to do lines or tests?
40. Q) Do you wear your gown and Mortar Board for the Head Mistress role?
41. Q) I am a male who likes to dress as an adult schoolgirl, do you cater for this?
42. Q) I want to visit as your nephew will you take me over your knee naked?
43. Q) I would like to be sub-servient to you?
44. Q) Can I video/photograph/record our session?
45. Q) Do you use humiliation?
46. Q) Do you Travel?
47. Q) Do you provide clothing for clients?
48. Q) I paid for a Spanking DVD through your shop and it hasn't arrived within the 48 hours? / Q) I have one of your Spanking DVDs but the quality is poor?
49. Q) What information is held about me?
50. Q) When I have visited and am a bit more confident how do I find like minded people?
51. Q) Do you use a safeword? 
52. Q) Do you administer the cane/tawse/strap on the hands?
53. Q) Do you cyber spank?
54. Q) What you are doing is tantamount to prostitution?
55. Q) Does HM use the terminology bum or bottom?
56. Q) What are the best type of underpants to wear?

MY PERSONAL DEFINITIONS

Spanking/C.P. - Top/Bottom or Switch = Both parties mutually respect the other, each can stop play at any time they wish, there is no need of a safeword as a Top should be aware of the bottom in front of them.  Both have equal control. Role-play is normally involved in this type of play i.e. adult schoolie/HM, Uncle/niece, Aunty/nephew but not always, it is where your head's at that counts.  Clothing in this scene plays an important part for the players.

BDSM - Dom/Domme, Submissive or Switch = Both parties mutually respect one another, there is a great amount of trust due to the restrictions in the scene, parties involved should have met prior and discussed how they want the session to go. A  Safe word should be applied to all play. Submissive still has a modicum of control in that they have only handed over a margin of control and can stop play with use of their safe word at any time.  Dom/Dommes have the same right, they take the control but are always aware of the submissive, their safety and needs. Leather, rubber, latex, PVC part nudity etc; play an important role in this scene as does the need for a submissive to be collared by her Dom/Domme. This type of play should be entered into with caution, especially with someone you have never met before, I would suggest you exchange Emails first then arrange to meet somewhere public as you may not get on and the would mean a disasterous encounter. I do not offer this type of service within my 1-2-1 bookings.

S/M - Master/Mistress and Slave = Slave has given over total control to their Master/Mistress, for them to do as they please within a safe, sane environment, determined by both parties upon entering into such an agreement.  Both have submitted to this type of relationship and are committed to acting out an SM scenes they feel work for them at the time. Again this should not be entered into lightly, you need to think about what will be required of you and most of all talk to your owner.  I do not offer this type of service within my 1-2-1 bookings.
ALL This type of play should be entered into with an open mind ensuring you feel safe, know that you can trust the other person to use implements safely and most of all know when to stop. If you don't feel safe or any element of mistrust then simply DON'T be coherced into play!

*Vanilla - is what people into the scene call others who are not or the way you dress i.e vanilla = normal everyday clothes.
**Where a deposit is requested be it for 1-2-1 sessions or parties this is non-refundable and must be paid at least 5 days prior to confirm.